Tag: my favorite pornography

On the Viva Erotica Festival in Helsinki

      Do I like that? Would I want to do that? Do I want to dream of that? Is that body like mine? What other kinds of bodies and experiences are out there? Which bodies do I want to touch? Which experiences do I want to make mine? “Will people be masturbating in the cinema?” This was one… Read more →

My Favorite Things of 2010

I like the idea of a list that defines the year by what brought me joy. Here is that list for 2010. If you know me, you know most things here have something to do with gender politics, Los Angeles and sexuality. Books 1. In Praise of Older Women (Stephen Vizinczey, 1965) Writing about sex as it should be. An… Read more →